Monday, February 8, 2010

"We never stopped believing."

I know, right?? A girl who loves football. But my dad lived his whole life in Washington, DC, and I knew how to sing "Hail to the Redskins" before I knew "Jesus Loves Me." Then we moved to the Gulf Coast when I was 11. But I didn't take to the Saints right away. Probably because they sucked. People called them the Ain'ts and fans literally wore paper bags on their heads to the games. Embarrassed to be seen as an Ain'ts fan.

But then in high school, I met Shelley. And Shelley was a Saints fan. And she personified true fan devotion. And I was kinda into that. Plus, the Saints kicker was really cute. And believe me, when your team never scores touchdowns, you kick A LOT of field goals. And you get really GOOD at kicking field goals, too.

My senior year, the Saints went 7-9. For my graduation gift, Shelley recreated a win over the Falcons by a field goal in the last second.


It was a time when Saints fans could get excited simply because WE HAD WON A GAME.

The picture is faded but I've held onto it all these years. It holds a special place in my heart. Or maybe I was just waiting for something else that Saints fans could be excited about.

Which explains why I cried like a baby when the Saints won the NFC Championship game and thus a trip to the Superbowl. It seemed like a DREAM. Could this be REAL?

I told my husband several weeks back that if the Saints went to the Superbowl, I was definitely having a Superbowl party. My aunt (from Louisiana) drove three hours from her home in Arkansas. A former co-worker of mine who grew up in NOLA came with her husband and adorable three teenage Saints girls!! I ordered a trophy cake:


It was an amazing party, because it was an amazing game. And we all were so invested in the outcome! So we sat glued to the screen like bugs to a light. We screamed. We clapped. We jumped up and down.

And in the end, we cried. We hugged. We asked, "Can this be real?" I was afraid, like a bad episode of "Dallas," I would wake up to find the entire season was a dream. Can this even be POSSIBLE??

Shelley wasn't here with us because she lives in Europe. She watched online and corresponded with her old high school pals on twitter and facebook. She skyped with her mom at their Superbowl party.

I posted a photo of the 1984 drawing and sent Shelley the message "I think I need another picture now, 26 years later!" At first, Shelley didn't remember it. Now an artist, she had actually forgotten that she had already started drawing in high school. But the recognition of what it was — combined with the realization that I still HAD IT — sent tears flowing again, flowing all the way across an ocean.

Shelley's the reason I became a Saints fan in the first place, some 30 years ago. We've been through a lot of bad years, us Saints faithful. But we never stopped believing.

People around the country see the Saints as a symbol 0f a region that has seen the lowest lows. Saints football is like a religion on the Gulf Coast. It's not about Katrina. Loving the Saints is about a way of life. It's best articulated by the now-famous chant, "Who dat say dey gonna beat dem Saints?" We can't explain it to you any better than that. We can't explain it to you if you don't live it.

I hope Shelley does another drawing.

5 comments:

Englishrose said...

Kalisa, I completely understand!!! I have been a Saints fan all 43 years, my Grandmother loved them and we suffered the good and the bad and when she passed away when I was 11, I stayed a Saints fan!!! Everyone around here was a Cowboys fan and there was NO WAY that I was going to like a Texas team! I had the privilege of meeting Archie Manning in 1979 and that just endeared me to the Saints even more.

I was like you afraid someone would wake me from the dream and my heart was telling me this was possible but my head was like this is Peyton Manning too... but I never gave up hope or faith in the Black and Gold of NOLA and it paid off... I lost my voice last night and cried so much... this was personal... it was about more than football... if you haven't lived it you can't understand it!

I showed your pictures to my friends at our Superbowl party and they thought they were awesome.. we even thought about driving down to NOLA last night!

Any way enough.. I hope Shelley does another picture for you and I hope you post it for all of us to enjoy!

Love you and miss you...you were my sanity around here!

WHO DAT!!!!

Me aka Supermom said...

Oh, I remember Morten's backside very well...so cute!

Kalisa Hyman said...

Rose, there was an interview with Jimmy Buffet after the NFC Championship game where he talked about all the Saints fans in heaven. How we've waited SO LONG for this, that we've lost an entire generation of fans who were patiently waiting for this day. He is so right. I personally know a couple, myself.

Tra said...

Freakin' amazing that you still have Shelley's drawing!!

Melissa said...

I remember and dearly love that drawing! It said something like "the Great Dane lifts his leg" didn't it? Morten Andersen is still the Saints' leading scorer with 1,318 points, and leading scorer in NFL history with 2,544 points. That's a lot of field goals! Andersen was inducted into the Saints Hall of Fame in 2009.
And he was easy on the eyes, too.
I've liked kickers ever since ...